Parenting is a full time job that requires our heart, body and soul. Its a job that leaves u strained, stressed and feel content at the same time. Most parents put their full time, energy and money into their little one so that their little ones turns into wonderful human beings in future.
Yes parenting is overwhelming. Although all parents do their best at their job of raising wonderful creatures we some time have a second thought “are we doing it right”.
Here are some tips to be a wonderful parent that your kids will love and help your heart find peace to the question that “are you good enough”?
* Spend quality time with your kids.
Play with them, read them books of their choice, tell them stories. Let them choose any activity, and don’t worry about rules. Just go with the flow and have fun.
*Give them a loving and peaceful atmosphere
Fill your home with love, life and laughter. Be a loving and caring partner to your spouse. Let your kids know the value of love and affection. You cannot have an atmosphere of fear, agony and anxiety and hope to raise happy kids.
* let them be
let them be what ever they want to be. Dont impose your ideas and actions on them. Find their inner desire and nurture them.
* Adapt your parenting to fit your child
No two children are similar. You cannot raise your child by comparing with other kids. You can never stereotype or copy parenting. Your kid is one unique spirit. Know his instincts and interests and act accordingly.
* love them unconditionally
love can rule any wild heart. Give your little one limitless love and affection. People often misunderstand that loving their children is to cater to whatever they ask for. Keep your rules consistent. Do not over provide them with things when you are in a good mood and try to take it all back the next day.
After all good parenting is not a life test as to who is better than whom. All parents have the basic instinct to do whats best for their little one. so heres to all the wonderful moms and dads.. “you all are doing an awesome job“.